It is a jungle out there and it is not easy meeting the right person. But it can be done if you follow these dating tips:
1. Use the Phone First:
Before you go on a date with someone, chat with them over the phone. There are certain red flags you should look for. If a recording says the call is being monitored, this could mean your potential date is in prison and just getting out next week . If you hear three or four kids crying in the background, two or three dogs barking in the background, or someone hollering "Bubba shut your trap, I'm on the telephone..." these might be good reasons to rethink the date. Of course, if you call and the number has been disconnected, hmmm, need we say more? Also watch how the person answers the phone. If they say " Joe's morgue, you stab them, we slab them," this is an indicator that it could be a bad date punctuated by bad jokes. If the person answers the phone with a lisp, then says "wait a minute, let me get my teeth", you might want to think twice about a good-night kiss on that first date.
2. Pay Attention To Your Date
It is always a good idea to pay attention to your date or as the old saying goes, if you can't be sincere, fake it. Even though he is reliving his high school football days when he was 100 pounds thinner, or she is telling you about how romantic her third wedding was, act like you care. If he keeps adjusting his toupee or she keeps readjusting her dentures, do not despair. Your blind date is human and just needs attention and love and you can make it work. Of course, having said that, if your date shows up wearing overalls, no shirt , and a tobacco stained moustache , still pay attention. Pay close attention to where the nearest exit is and plan your escape route.
3. Go Someplace Special
Where he or she meets you on the first date, says a lot about your expectations in a relationship. Good places not to meet are:
McDonalds, who wants fries with their relationship; A cheap bar, who wants a mate who likes cheap liquor and lots of it; The Thrift Store, who wants a mate who has a collection of clothes from the 70s a Starbucks; who wants a date who thinks it is financially sound to spend five bucks on coffee. His friend's house where they sit around playing computer games Motel 6 Pre-school where he has to pick up this three kids Adult book store Strip club' Hell's Angel meeting
What Do You Really Know About Him?
Before you go out with them, ask his friends some questions?. Does he go to the library or strip bars, does he go home and watch TV or stumble out of a different watering hole every night, is every Friday reserved for his mother or his probation officer? Of course you have to very careful about this, say we say, spying? I don't recommend stalking as ,, for some reason this tends to upset people, So don't pop out of the bushes and scare him or her. Stay in the bushes until they go to bed, then sneak home.
5. Check Out the Family
This is very important. Always ask to meet her or his parents on the first date. If his family includes a wife - not a good sign. In fact, it is good if you can double-date with the parents. You can see how his parents interact, how they get along, how they treat each other. Does the father drink five martinis in an hour, does the mother go to the Ladies Room depressed and comes out looking very, very happy? Now most experts don't think that this is a good idea, inviting his or her parents out on the first date, but you do marry into the family. And it is always good to see just how crazy they can be, before you get any further involved with your potential mate.
1. Use the Phone First:
Before you go on a date with someone, chat with them over the phone. There are certain red flags you should look for. If a recording says the call is being monitored, this could mean your potential date is in prison and just getting out next week . If you hear three or four kids crying in the background, two or three dogs barking in the background, or someone hollering "Bubba shut your trap, I'm on the telephone..." these might be good reasons to rethink the date. Of course, if you call and the number has been disconnected, hmmm, need we say more? Also watch how the person answers the phone. If they say " Joe's morgue, you stab them, we slab them," this is an indicator that it could be a bad date punctuated by bad jokes. If the person answers the phone with a lisp, then says "wait a minute, let me get my teeth", you might want to think twice about a good-night kiss on that first date.
2. Pay Attention To Your Date
It is always a good idea to pay attention to your date or as the old saying goes, if you can't be sincere, fake it. Even though he is reliving his high school football days when he was 100 pounds thinner, or she is telling you about how romantic her third wedding was, act like you care. If he keeps adjusting his toupee or she keeps readjusting her dentures, do not despair. Your blind date is human and just needs attention and love and you can make it work. Of course, having said that, if your date shows up wearing overalls, no shirt , and a tobacco stained moustache , still pay attention. Pay close attention to where the nearest exit is and plan your escape route.
3. Go Someplace Special
Where he or she meets you on the first date, says a lot about your expectations in a relationship. Good places not to meet are:
McDonalds, who wants fries with their relationship; A cheap bar, who wants a mate who likes cheap liquor and lots of it; The Thrift Store, who wants a mate who has a collection of clothes from the 70s a Starbucks; who wants a date who thinks it is financially sound to spend five bucks on coffee. His friend's house where they sit around playing computer games Motel 6 Pre-school where he has to pick up this three kids Adult book store Strip club' Hell's Angel meeting
What Do You Really Know About Him?
Before you go out with them, ask his friends some questions?. Does he go to the library or strip bars, does he go home and watch TV or stumble out of a different watering hole every night, is every Friday reserved for his mother or his probation officer? Of course you have to very careful about this, say we say, spying? I don't recommend stalking as ,, for some reason this tends to upset people, So don't pop out of the bushes and scare him or her. Stay in the bushes until they go to bed, then sneak home.
5. Check Out the Family
This is very important. Always ask to meet her or his parents on the first date. If his family includes a wife - not a good sign. In fact, it is good if you can double-date with the parents. You can see how his parents interact, how they get along, how they treat each other. Does the father drink five martinis in an hour, does the mother go to the Ladies Room depressed and comes out looking very, very happy? Now most experts don't think that this is a good idea, inviting his or her parents out on the first date, but you do marry into the family. And it is always good to see just how crazy they can be, before you get any further involved with your potential mate.
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