When men run away, it's time to devise a better game plan in order to keep one interested. From one man's complaint to another person's lesson, here's 5 easy ways to get a guy to remain interested in you. What not to do?Texts. I'm notorious for texts. Way I see it, you pay for it then use it. When not to text a man? The entire week after sexual relations with a man.
I'm guilty of doing such. But one man decided to point it out to me."It creeps me out knowing you contacted me through text the day after."Most people would say he's a jerk. Others would agree with his logic. Me? It took one phrase to understand his way of thinking."The only way I'm going to be interested is if you make me run for you instead."Bingo! They want to be left alone for a while ladies. So, leave them alone and make them want you more.
Great dating tips begin with the basics.Out of sight, out of mind? Not true. There's always going to be this voice in the back of your head suggesting that if you leave them alone they will not be interested anymore. Out of sight, out of mind plays havoc with relations involving men. Don't allow that trick thinking to surface. Truth is, if there's anything there to begin with you'll find out within two weeks from being with a man. It's not the end of the world to test your self control either.
Which brings us to the next bit of advice.Patience. If I had a dime every single time I was impatient I'd own Yahoo. But as luck should have it, that's not the case. I'm was impatient. Learn some patience in this waiting game. It could pay off big time!I've had a difficult month with a sinus infection, low vitamin B, and recovering from a fractured rib. My emotions were a tad unconventional. I suggested to a man that I wasn't a slut. He asked why I put myself down like that. For a while I didn't get the connection until recently. What's the next thing not to do?Do not compare yourself to other women. You end up appearing as if you're putting yourself down rather than being rational. Sure, you'll feel better about telling a guy you're not a slut (for about five minutes) until you realize how you insulted the guy in the process.
And you also put the 'less' in classless. Have some confidence. Leave the childish 'I'm not a slut like others' behind.Never take things too serious. Serious gets you nowhere. For instance, men (or a man) buys you gifts for Christmas. When the guy you slept with notices and says lightly 'maybe I should buy you some gifts' don't take that serious. He's just messing around ladies. Most men do not take things too serious. And if you want to keep a man interested then follow suit. Don't take them serious.Leave it behind you. Whatever happens between you and man at one moment should be left behind the next moment once it happens. Not only will you avoid any post-bed drama but you will make him, again, want you more.
Do not revamp conversations a week prior. Do not even contact them period. Let their mind wonder as to where you are.Emotions can kill a man's interest. Stop being emotional. Once you wear you emotions on your sleeve all bets are off! That means never talk about the guy to others as if he's the next best thing. Do not allow his name to surface in your vocabulary. Wipe him off the heart chart until he chalks himself in. Your heart is a wonderful divine location but don't let the heart cloud the mind. You do want him, don't you?Look, all men are different. But the basic calling card remains the same. They just want to tap into you, leave you be to evaluate your response. Surprise the next guy with these tricks and see where that takes you. I'm guessing you just may find a guy coming back for more!Self-source.
I'm guilty of doing such. But one man decided to point it out to me."It creeps me out knowing you contacted me through text the day after."Most people would say he's a jerk. Others would agree with his logic. Me? It took one phrase to understand his way of thinking."The only way I'm going to be interested is if you make me run for you instead."Bingo! They want to be left alone for a while ladies. So, leave them alone and make them want you more.
Great dating tips begin with the basics.Out of sight, out of mind? Not true. There's always going to be this voice in the back of your head suggesting that if you leave them alone they will not be interested anymore. Out of sight, out of mind plays havoc with relations involving men. Don't allow that trick thinking to surface. Truth is, if there's anything there to begin with you'll find out within two weeks from being with a man. It's not the end of the world to test your self control either.
Which brings us to the next bit of advice.Patience. If I had a dime every single time I was impatient I'd own Yahoo. But as luck should have it, that's not the case. I'm was impatient. Learn some patience in this waiting game. It could pay off big time!I've had a difficult month with a sinus infection, low vitamin B, and recovering from a fractured rib. My emotions were a tad unconventional. I suggested to a man that I wasn't a slut. He asked why I put myself down like that. For a while I didn't get the connection until recently. What's the next thing not to do?Do not compare yourself to other women. You end up appearing as if you're putting yourself down rather than being rational. Sure, you'll feel better about telling a guy you're not a slut (for about five minutes) until you realize how you insulted the guy in the process.
And you also put the 'less' in classless. Have some confidence. Leave the childish 'I'm not a slut like others' behind.Never take things too serious. Serious gets you nowhere. For instance, men (or a man) buys you gifts for Christmas. When the guy you slept with notices and says lightly 'maybe I should buy you some gifts' don't take that serious. He's just messing around ladies. Most men do not take things too serious. And if you want to keep a man interested then follow suit. Don't take them serious.Leave it behind you. Whatever happens between you and man at one moment should be left behind the next moment once it happens. Not only will you avoid any post-bed drama but you will make him, again, want you more.
Do not revamp conversations a week prior. Do not even contact them period. Let their mind wonder as to where you are.Emotions can kill a man's interest. Stop being emotional. Once you wear you emotions on your sleeve all bets are off! That means never talk about the guy to others as if he's the next best thing. Do not allow his name to surface in your vocabulary. Wipe him off the heart chart until he chalks himself in. Your heart is a wonderful divine location but don't let the heart cloud the mind. You do want him, don't you?Look, all men are different. But the basic calling card remains the same. They just want to tap into you, leave you be to evaluate your response. Surprise the next guy with these tricks and see where that takes you. I'm guessing you just may find a guy coming back for more!Self-source.
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